Although we had dozens of domestic helps and maids at home, Ajji would never leave a chance to give us the oil bath every weekend. First she would change from her silk saree to light cotton one. She would apply warm scented oil on our body and hair and give a thorough massage for at least half an hour starting from head to toe. I would always doze off by this time. Then she would take us to steaming bathroom and make us sit on wooden stool. First she would wash our hair with natural herbal shampoo made using Shikakai and then apply herbal conditioner made from Dasavala (Hibiscus) flowers and leaves. Then she would wash off the oil with a mixture of Gram flour and water rubbing vigorously. By this time we would be content and half asleep. After towelling us dry she would take us to main house to our recreational room on first floor of the house to dry our hair with the Saambhrani Dhoop (Dry leaves of Sambhrani being sprinkled on burning coal in a large clay container and is covered with cane basket). This aromatic, warm smoke of Sambhrani would slowly dry our hair so that we wouldn't catch cold.
And then came our weekend lunch time. Green plantain leaves would look like some artist’s palette with colourful dishes adorning them from top to bottom with every kid’s favourite dishes. After a heavy lunch cooked by our Amma, Aunties and Ajji, there was no way we could keep our eyes open. With heavy eyelids we would straight get into our kids room and I bet our mother’s would have been happy to see us naughty ones to doze off leaving them enough free time to take nap in the afternoon. Even today I just have to close my eyes to see my Ajji smiling at us, ready with platter full of munchies when we would get up from our nap and ready to go out for playing. Memories of her face, her smile, her soft, wrinkled hands, her bright, sparkling eyes, her perfume, our weekend oil baths, and her delicious food is very fresh in my heart.
One of my favourite food memories from my Ajji’s kitchen is Huli-Menasina Kodhel. It’s a typical Udupi-Managalorean curry made using very few ingredients and its one of the finest example as how simple food cooked with very few ingredients can taste utterly delicious. While Byadagi Menasu gives that fiery red colour with kick of spiciness, tamarind gives it much needed tang. Coconut and Jaggery makes it creamy, a hint of sweetness and pungent Garlic tadka takes it to another level of taste. Huli-Menasina Kodhel is usually made using Yellow Cucumber or Tindora/Tondekai or combination of both and is a very special dish for me, from my native. Coming from a Brahmin family who followed very strict vegetarian diet, we kids would imagine that Tondekai/Tindora as fish and annoy our elders. Ajji would laugh at our wild imaginations and made sure to cook this Kodhel during weekends for our pleasure. Even now when I cook this Kodhel, I can’t help but think of my blissful childhood days with dozens of cousins. I am sending this special dish to this month’s Jihva for Love which is guest hosted by Jigyasa and Pratibha who have started this beautiful blog A Tribute to Pedatha.
Huli Menasina Kodhel (Mangalorean Recipe for Tindoras cooked in Coconut, Tamarind and Chilli Gravy)
Cooking Time: 20-30 mins
Serves: 5-6
Ingredients:
5-6 cups Tindora/Tondekai, trimmed and halved
1 tbsp Jaggery (Adjust acc to taste)
½ tsp Turmeric Powder
Salt to taste
For Ground Masala:
4-6 Dry Red Chilli, preferably Bydagi/Kashmiri Chilli (Adjust acc to taste)
1 big marble sized Tamarind Pulp
¾ -1 cup Coconut, fresh/frozen
½ tsp Jeera/Cumin Seeds
For Tempering:
6-8 Garlic Cloves, sliced
1 tsp Mustard Seeds
1 Dry Red Chilli, halved
Few Curry leaves
½ tbsp Oil, preferably Coconut Oil
Take a pan with 3-4 cups of water and bring them to gentle boil. Meanwhile, wash, dry and trim the ends of tindora and halve them horizontally.
Add these tindora pieces into boiling water along with jaggery, turmeric powder and salt to taste. Cook uncovered on a medium flame for around 10-15 minutes till they are half cooked.
Grind coconut with tamarind, dry red byadagi chillies and cumin seeds to smooth water adding little water at time.
Add this ground paste to cooked tindora and mix well. Cook on a medium to low heat for about 10-15 minutes and bring the curry to gentle boil and turn of the heat. Adjust the seasoning as per taste.
Heat oil in a pan and add garlic slices to it. Sauté till garlic turns golden yellow in colour. Add mustard seeds, dry red chilli and curry leaves and sauté. Once the mustard seeds starts to pop and splutter transfer the tempering to Kodhel and mix well.
Serve this Huli-Menasina Kodhel with steamed rice or Dosa or Idli and enjoy.
Note:
Use Dosekai/Yello Cucumber in place of Tindora or mix both the vegetables in equal quantity and follow the same recipe.
Garlic is a must for this Kodhel as it gives Kodhel wonderful flavour.
What a lovely write up Sia. It reminded me of my Ajji in Mysore. Brought tears to my eyes at how beautifully you described your weekends with your ajji. Just magical:o)
ReplyDeleteI can't wait to buy Tindora now...mmmm looks fabulous Sia!
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely post, Sia. You transported me to another time and era. I have to try this recipe soon.
ReplyDeleteYour grandmother sounds great.
ReplyDeleteWhile reading your post i could imagine the bathroom you described.
In my dads parents place it was also like that.
The bathroom was away from the house.
Which for me when i was little i didn't lik it as i always asked my elder sister to come with me as i was afraid to go alone .
Sups!! What an amazing way to describe the beauty of your Ajji!Hats off my dear, I could clearly visualise as if its happening in front of me now!!
ReplyDeleteAnd to end with that amazing curry using tondekai.
I usually fried tondekai with coconut or chutney but never tried a curry Sups. I will definitely give it a go!!
delecious curry sia
ReplyDeleteThats a yummy curry! pic too looks very delicious..
ReplyDeleteI will definately create more instant dosas for u. meanwhile u take a look at my tondlee instant pickle here :)
http://soupsnsnacks.blogspot.com/2008/02/instant-carrot-pickles.html
OH WOW ... looks tasty kodhel. Nice pics...when i'd tried Asha's koddel powder it is super and you have mentioned to try beetroot knw it is also good yummy recipe.
ReplyDeleteLove tindora..so far i have not made curry with it. Nice masala with coconut. Will try when i get some fresh tindora.
ReplyDeletethat looks yummy :) .
ReplyDeleteReading about your ajji even I can say what a pretty lady she might be .Pretty from heart too :) .
You reminded me of this well-written and even better sung sgazal of jagjit singh sia...
"Magar mujko lauta do bachapan ka savan woh kagaj ki kashti woh barish ka paani... " .
how good it would be if God has left options for us to choose in which stage of life we want to live forever :)
The intro to your recipe in talking about your Ajji really touched my heart, Sia. So sweet it almost brought tears to my eyes... As for the recipe, well, it's truly awesome and a new way to make tindoora for me! Thank you so much for sharing both with us. :)
ReplyDeleteI love how evocative the names are!! Absolutely yum - to eat, to look at and even to think of!
ReplyDeleteSmita
The curry looks awesome. I make it in a different way.
ReplyDeleteyour ajji sounds like a warm and wonderful lady, sia. it's sad that you didn't get to spend more time with her.
ReplyDeletedelicious, sia! lovely pic. what a nice way to cook tindora! Awesome.
ReplyDeleteBy the colour I can make out it tastes good :-).........mouthwatering......
ReplyDeleteThe picture itself is too tempting..nice to hear ur nostalgic memories..
ReplyDeleteSAI - loved the narration of your grandmom and it bring back memories. But I would cry and run around the house not wanting an oil bath:)
ReplyDeletehuli menasina kodhel, such a nice name :)
ReplyDeletelike the garlic tadka on top, would like to make this rcp!
Thats beautiful one..hope you had put up a picture of your ajji!...would've been great...
ReplyDeleteLovely post Sia. It reminded me of my ammama.. miss her badly..:(
ReplyDeleteThe color of the curry is amazing and its a treat for me, tindora being one of my fav vegetables!
Siri
Such a beautiful description of your childhood memories Sia - and a recipe to match!
ReplyDeleteBy the way, thats not me in the pic on my Focaccia post - its a friend who also made some of the food.:)
Miri
Hi Sia....
ReplyDeleteI love Tindora..... Ur curry is looking good... Love the picture.... Nice recipe...
I just love the way you write! makes an interesting read!
ReplyDeleteDearest Sia, I'm speechless except to say, thank you for sharing this beautifully written remembrance. This speaks to my heart and reminds me of my own memories of childhood -- happy memories I hope my kids will have, too.
ReplyDeleteSending you a big hug tonight :)
Ohh..those golden fried garlic's are tempting me to taste!!!
ReplyDeleteNever thought to make a gravy with tondakai, perfectly delish :) I can imagine ur ajji with ur description :)
ReplyDeleteSia i was transported back in time to my father's native place....your descriptive posts have the ability to touch ppl's hearts...for some time i was a part of your story imagining each and everything that you described:)I love tindora and this is such a wonderful recipe...in Orissa we normally prepare dry preparations from this vegetable..yours is new to me:)
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful post! You reminded me of my Ajji (maternal grandmother), even the description matches...the silk saree, jasmine flowers, knotted bun, kumkum and ofcourse especially the bath routine.
ReplyDeleteI was fortunate enough to have had her company for a longer time.
I will definitely try this recipe very soon.
Hello Sia,
ReplyDeleteThat was one lovely and beautiful and interesting write abt your grandma.You reminded me of my childhood days.Thankyou for sharing.
Yummy curry! Cant wait to try your recipe.
Madhoo
ummmm.... yummy!!! Looks so good! I'm missing my ajji now :(
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautiful tribute to your grandmother, Sia. She sounds very special indeed, and I love how lovingly you describe her. Thanks for sharing this very special recipe.
ReplyDeleteSia,
ReplyDeleteAre we related? My Ajji was the so similar and she was from Mangalore too. She died about 15 yrs ago. I really miss her cooking and regret that I never learned any of her cooking. My Ajja died 2 yrs ago at the age of 103. How I miss my Ajja and Ajji and ofcourse Mangalore after reading your post. Thanks for bringing back sweet memories.
Wow....looks beautiful!!! Your story brought back memories.Even we had a huge copper pot which we used to fill to the brim with water brought in from the well.My granny used to get the wood to light the fire and within half an hour the water would be hot! Oh I miss those lazy days :)
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Sups, this is so beautiful.....your decsription of your Ajji and the vivid painting with words, took me a lil' journey through time. Lovely koddel, have to find some tindoras now.
ReplyDeletePure nostalgia, girl!
Beautiful narration and pictures as always! I am in awe of your distinct memories and the way you write! Loved the write up about your Ajji and that instantly brought back memories of my own Ajji.
ReplyDeletesniff! sniff! Naani yaad diladi tumne Sia!! I want my Naani!! I miss her!! My Granda has the sweetest expression on her face and the gentlest hands and a world of wisdom!
ReplyDeleteThe recipe sounds like a winner.. will try it!!
Wow, this post brings back memories for me too... beautifully written! ANd that first photo, it makes me want to lick my computer screen, it looks soooooooooooo good! :D
ReplyDeleteThat's a very sweet post. A wonderful tribute to your grandmother. i miss my both grandmothers too.
ReplyDeletelovely recipe.
Sia - thanks for that recipe! I've started trying almost everything from your site. Love Mangalorean food and your blog is a treasure!
ReplyDeleteI tried your Huli,its really tasty..........
ReplyDeleteAh! Reminds me of a long, long time back. Of childhood days at Mysore. Don't speak too much Kannada now, but some of the words brings back sweet memories of simpler days.
ReplyDeleteHi Sia,
ReplyDeleteI have been visiting your blog from past couple of months and have tried out few dishes like - Aloo Palak, Capsicum and baby corn sabji, menthi chutney and yesterday tried your huli menasina kodhel .... WOW.. Each one of the dishes were FINGER LICKING GOOD !!! :)
We loved your huli menasina kodhel very much.. trust me..tindora never tasted this good before:) .. It had absorbed the favors so well.. just perfect.. My husband's comment and I quote -" without a doubt, this is THE best tindora dish I have ever had"..
I would like to thank you for sharing all your WONDERFUL recipes here.. Its really of great help for a novice like me. I would definitely like to keep coming back and try more and more recipes from your blog. Will keep you posted:). Thanks again.
Cheers
Archana
@Archana, your kind words left me feel incredibly good at what I do! Motivating comments like yours keeps me going even after 6 years of blogging and you, my readers, are really inspiring lot who keep my love and passion for food and blogging go strong :) Thank you for all the sweet things you said about me and my blog. You just made my day even more beautiful :)
ReplyDeleteYou took me to another world Sia! What a blissful childhood you've had. Nishu xx
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